Relations & Life

People say that life is not about making mistakes but indeed to err is too human. Fools are those who don’t learn from their mistakes and ignorant are those who can’t bury those mistakes under the hatch after taking the right lessons. There is a lot to ponder in life on a day to day basis but even then it’s surprising how little our mind actually fathoms.

Human life like nature is well too symmetric. It’s like Ying & Yang, everything compliments the other. Your emotions define your words & actions & silence. A moment of rage, a sudden burst of laughter, an awry smile, an instant of pause, anything & everything has an impact. There are ones that you can feel immediately and also the ones who would come to light only in future.

What define a relationship are all such moments. Every word, every action & every silence counts. In the economics of relationships, time is the currency. You invest time to get time in return. There is plainly no other alternative. All those telling you otherwise are actually talking about other dynamics of life and not the actual real relationships.

It’s always quad pro quo & I assure you that this notion is in no way selfish. Even the seasoned connoisseurs of selfless love would agree that love is a lot more than its etymology.  This fact is so very scientific. Chemically speaking it assures a state of equilibrium which in turn is responsible for maintaining stability. And it holds true for the law of physics that talks about every action having an equal and opposite reaction.

So be ready to give when you tend to expect. No one is holier than thou, no one can be perfect & it’s exactly for this reason that we have words like confess and commit. You can confess your mistakes and commit to never make it happen again, at least intentionally to bring back most of the things that you have lost.

It’s true that you need darkness to see the stars & it will take a dark phase of your life to count all the stars you have in it. No matter what but at some uncertain phase of life everyone is going to hurt you & you just need to figure about all who are worth taking that pain.

It will take more than a week, a month or sometimes a year to turn those little chit-chats in to a heart to heart conversation but it will not take more than a silence to flush that all. Everything is fragile in some sense or the other. There is no such thing called immortality.

Handshakes and hugs can never be the same thing. While a cold handshake is just too formal and customary, a warm hug is something that needs to be earned. It is something that you earn by spending nothing but time.

There are no boundaries or languages for expressions. Sometimes a silence can speak volumes in a true relationship. Deciphering codes is the key. One requires the ability to filter between a true smile & a false tear. Everyone looks for certain qualities in the people that he surrounds himself with. Neither treachery nor foul mouthing are qualities that you will like having in your closed ones.

Life is complicated. Family makes it simple. Lovers add color to it. Friends fill it with fun. Everything is integral yet nothing is permanent. Change is the only thing constant & many a times you don’t have a choice other than to adopt. Only the fittest survives & no one has ever survived life!!!

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An Engineer by qualification, a blogger by choice and an enterprenur by interest. Loves to read and write and explore new places and people.